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When I Grow Up...




I often wonder if there's an age one gets to and feels they are finally grown. Like you feel grown . Because when I was little, I figured by eighteen you would have life figured out. Kinda naïve tbh but I didn't know better I guess.

When I grow up I wanna have my shit together. I want to be emotionally stable I want to know the true meaning of being happy. But honestly guys, do you think someone can be happy forever? Or is it just fleeting moments of happiness that we have to treasure. 

When I grow up, I want to be better in money management. I don't know if there is a class for this😂. If there is, hook a sister up😂. Because I feel as a generation, we should definitely be very knowledgeable about money management especially saving and investing.

I want to go to therapy, I think everyone needs therapy to live a more fulfilled life but damn is it expensive😅 but its definitely on my savings list. I think everyone should invest in this because we all have some skeletons and if you really think about it, it's a self investment.

Also I feel like I've reduced my reading since I've grown older and have been more consumed with my phone and surfing the web. So I think I want to set aside a day where I don't use my phone to get into reading more because I really love books.

Yeah.. that's basically what I think I should achieve to deem myself grown😂. Make sure you follow the official Instagram page for this blog on insta @everythingmelaninblog so we can interact more☺. Love yah and tune in for something very exciting soon yeey😂😂👋.

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